How many times have people laughed at your fear of spiders, and told you something similar to just get over it? Many people know firsthand just how frustrating this can be. If only those people understood that it just is not that simple. Do they really think you want to be ‘the one’ who is scared of a furry, crawling insect? When someone tells you to face your fear of spiders or get over it, here’s how you should respond.